Keep patience and away from negative thoughts even in difficult times

There is no denying that time and circumstances are not always the same. Sometimes a good time comes in every person's life, sometimes he has to go through bad times, but it is believed that a person is identified only in his bad times. The biggest reason behind saying this is that even in the best phase of life, even a normal person is able to take the right decision, but when the situation is unfavorable, then the right talent of the person is assessed.

In adverse circumstances, only the person who takes the right decision leads to success and the person who cannot handle himself at such a time feels the failure. Ultimately what may be the most important quality to make the right decision in adverse times. Who needs the person the most in times of difficult circumstances.

If you think seriously, then in the adverse circumstances, first a nervousness arises in the person and in that panic, he feels strange, his expectations are weak, his patience starts to respond and in such a situation, whatever decision he makes Most of that turns out to be wrong. Therefore, the most important thing is to maintain patience in adverse times. Only the toughest challenges can be faced with patience. A person who does not have patience, he is not able to face even the smallest problems properly.

For this, you can take the example of many small incidents that happen around you. Most accidents in road accidents all over the world occur due to lack of patience. In the absence of patience at the time of crossing the road, people decide to cross the road in haste without looking at both sides and many of them also cross the road but sometimes during this time someone gets hit by a car and Then you have to lose your life. Coincidence can happen to you and vice versa, but if you patiently wait for the right time and decide to cross the road after being fully convinced, the chances of an accident are slim.

In the same way, when you prepare for school, college or any competitive exam and the exam time is near, a panic arises in you. As the exam time draws near, this nervousness intensifies. Those who do not have patience, in such a time, they try to read the whole syllabus again and read it quickly. In such a situation, nothing is found in their hands. But, those who have patience, think on it calmly and then try to read the same material seriously, on which they have doubts. By doing this, they also make good use of the time around the exam and this patience becomes a help in making them successful.

For example, if someone encourages you to do something and you decide to come to that provocation accordingly, it shows your weakness and also creates difficulties for you. In such a situation, the patient tries to understand the provocation of someone, stops a little and then reacts.

The probability of such responses being correct is maximum. For example, one can see the events related to the lives of many great men. All the scientists and inventors who have been there have waited for the success of their research for years. He tried many unsuccessful experiments with patience and after every failure he carried it forward but he did not lose his patience.

If he had lost patience, he would never have been invented. We can find a direct example of this from many incidents in the life of Mahatma Gandhi. When he was first disembarked from the train in South Africa due to the color discrimination policy, he did not immediately react to it. He did not think it right to get involved with that officer but understood the whole situation and found that the reason behind this is the policy of color discrimination and such incidents cannot be stopped unless the policy is attacked.

He planned for it and then started a struggle. However, he had to struggle a long time but did not lose patience and that same patience gave him success. He also showed some similar patience during the Indian independence movement and despite the so-called failures of many movements, he did not lose control and continued to struggle, which is in front of us.

An example of how much power is in decision taken with patience is an incident with Vivekananda. Once a Christian friend of Vivekananda planned to test his ability. They probably wanted to test their intelligence. He invited Vivekananda to eat. When they went to his house, Swamiji made that Christian friend sit in a room. Many religious books were placed on a table in that room. Those books were stacked on top of each other. The Gita was placed at the bottom of the books of many religions of the world and the Bible was placed at the top.

The person expected that Swami ji would get angry after seeing this and would make some such angry remarks, which would challenge his restraint. He asked Swamiji how did you like this way of keeping books. Swami Vivekananda looked at him seriously and replied with patience that the foundation is indeed good. That person expects this answer